Sister Bails On Brother's Wedding After Finding Out He Uninvited Their LGBTQ Brother Because He ”Acts So Gay”

“When I tried to explain myself I got people telling me that I shouldn't have done something so drastic over a petty squabble between brothers.”

Ayoub

• Published in Interesting
• November 9, 2022

Being bullied and harassed by strangers or colleagues is something that most people eventually learn how to deal with. However, when the attacks are coming from your own family members, it feels like there's no escape, even at home.

Siblings often tease and bully each other constantly. Most of the time, it is pretty harmless and never leads to anything serious. But sometimes, kids can take things too far, especially if the bullying and harassment are constant.

Parents usually ignore pretty fights between siblings because it eventually gets tiring to get involved in every casual confrontation. That opens the door to more harassment and clashes between siblings. 

A Redditor who goes by the username u/Automatic_Bar_2136 made a post on the r/AmItheAhole subReddit where she explained how she bailed on her brother's wedding last second after promising to help plan it. OP's decision was due to her brother's recent harassment and homophobia toward their other brother. 

Two months after that, OP posted an Update about the situation where new discoveries were made. Scroll down to check out the full Reddit post and the Update, and scroll a little further after each post to read the comments from the original post.

Here's the original post by Reddit user y u/Automatic_Bar_2136:

OP decided that B uninviting J to the wedding was the last straw.

B accused OP of bailing on her last minute, so she was unsure whether she made the right call.

OP eventually modified the post to include an Update of the story.

OP is hoping that her brother's fiancé can be the one to talk some sense back into him.

Here's why OP thinks she might potentially be the a-hole:

Here's how the Reddit community reacted to u/Automatic_Bar_2136's post:

The brother did not pay OP for her services and had no right to complain.

OP's brother is a homophobe and a bully.

OP's relatives are either acting dumb, or they're bigoted as well.

u/Automatic_Bar_2136 made another post 2 months later for a huge Update:

OP is still working on being a better sister to her brother.

OP was asked by the fiancé to meet at a restaurant with both her brothers.

Once OP and J arrived at the restaurant, they could feel how nervous their brother was.

OP's brother had a huge announcement to make.

J eventually had the opportunity to talk and speak his mind.

B and J even cry hugged at the end.

B even decided to make J his groomsman.

Here's how the Reddit community reacted to u/Automatic_Bar_2136's update:

It's such a cliché at this point.

G is the true hero here!

OP's initial decision led to a lot of things unfolding, and by doing on, she ended up saving her brothers' relationship. Props to the brother's fiance, who's the true hero in this story and deserves all the credit. If you enjoyed this story, make sure to check out similar content on our platform.

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