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She cursed at him for opening another bag of candy which they were supposed to donate to a charity drive
Yelling rarely gets the message across to the other person. A loud voice will surely capture someone's attention, but it is not a productive mode of communication.
It can even cause even bigger problems which is what happened between this couple who asked Redditors for advice. OP started it by saying that she thinks she may have been wrong, but she needed someone else's objective opinion to settle her conflicting emotions.
She and her husband had a huge fight about Halloween candies. OP asked him not to open any more bags until they gave everything they already set out.
OP wanted to donate all of the unopened bags to their dentist's office, which holds an annual candy drive during the spooky season. Her husband was looking directly at her and, without batting an eye, opened another bag of chocolates.
"Why the f*ck would you do that when I literally just finished asking you to please not!" OP blurted that in anger which her husband did not appreciate.
He asked why she would curse at him that way. OP immediately picked up on her mistake and apologized for expressing her anger in such a crass manner.
However, she said, her anger was still valid despite how she expressed it. Her husband refused to accept her apology because her explanation sounded like a justification to him.
She followed him to the bedroom to talk again but he said abusers do not give their victims any space to think and that is exactly what OP is doing to him. OP knows that she basically started the argument but is she the only a**hole here?
OP said her husband just got defensive because he was rather shocked by her cursing at him. She also thanked everyone for their concern but doesn't believe this moment is definitive enough for everyone to say that her husband is abusive.
Redditors often jump to conclusions, and this is not worth getting a divorce over.