Here is the OP's concern:
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OP explained he and his wife have different upbringings when it comes to food:
And it had caused them many disputes in their marriage:
So, his wife came up with an idea:
But the thing is that the OP doesn't like it and started the fight about it:
A Reddit user was curious what the OP expected his wife to do
"You are creating needless frustration because you aren't adapting to your own house and wife"
It sounds like the OP wants her to change completely:
"Why is your upbringing the most important?"
One Redditor advised the OP to seek therapy
They have a bigger problem in their relationship
She's the main cook in the household, and she certainly knows about leftovers, the OP doesn't need to remind her:
"You need to just listen to your wife and accept that when she says you can have something she means it"
The Redditor told the OP that he can't expect his wife to change completely. She had already explained to him why she couldn't eat leftovers, and he still forced her.
He acts like he wants to control her. Therefore, the OP should seek therapy and solve his own issues and concerns.
His upbringing and wishes can not be more important than hers. She had already changed her cooking habits and made a compromise for him.