Mom Accuses Redditor Of Hating Her Kids After Saying That The Way They Eat Is Gross

“I'd prefer to visit her when there is NOT food involved.”

Ayoub

• Published in Interesting
• March 23, 2023

Parents who fail to teach their children proper manners risk exposing them to a myriad of issues that usually stick with them their whole lives. Children with bad manners often have difficulties in relationships and social situations, and it tends to get worse as they grow up.

People learn manners as a means to interact respectfully and appropriately with others. Without them, it may be challenging to succeed in school, make friends, and eventually have a successful career.

A lack of manners can restrict a child's personal development and growth. Crucial values get instilled through good manners, such as empathy, respect, and kindness towards your peers.

A Redditor who goes by the username u/Radiant_Gene1077 made a post on the r/AmItheAhole subReddit where she explained how her friend accused her of hating her kids because she doesn't want to spend time around them anymore when food is involved. The woman's kids have terrible manners, which causes the user to get grossed out and lose her appetite. 

The Reddit community had a lot of different reactions to the user's post. Scroll down to check out the full Reddit post, and scroll a little further to read the comments from the original post. 

Here's the original post by Reddit user u/Radiant_Gene1077:

After Op revealed the reason why she's turning down invites, the woman accused her of hating her kids.

OP thinks she might be the a-hole for the following reason:

Here's how the Reddit community reacted to u/Radiant_Gene1077's post:

Kids have to respect other people's homes and rules.

If the parent isn't doing their duties, someone has to.

After a while, it goes from being 'cute' to disgusting.

“Kids aren’t stupid and they can learn, parents are supposed to teach them the basics at the very least.”

The kids will have a hard time getting rid of those habits.

Failing to teach kids proper manners limits their future.

Manners are the most important things in life.

“Maybe people will learn to not let their kids act feral if they want other people to come around.”

If they continue to act this way in their teenage years, things won't go so well for them.

The kids will eventually face social repercussions.

People hate hearing hard truths.

They can start learning as young as one year old.

Manners impose a certain degree of respect.

OP must be one of the many people who avoid this woman's kids.

Parents need to ensure that their kids are acting properly.

OP's problem is with the kids' manners, not them.

“I don't blame you for not wanting to eat with them around.”

OP's friend should take a moment and notice her kids' behavior instead of accusing OP of hating them. It's easy to throw accusations around, but it's harder to take a closer look at yourself and what you're doing wrong.

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