The story in detail
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A little background
OP had lunch with his fiancée’s family on Christmas, but it ended badly as they were making underhand passive aggressive comments about everything
OP’s fiancée ended getting hurt. Now he knows why she has avoided her family all this while
Here’s how the Reddit community reacted to the story:
“YTA… Even if you are only trying to help her, you have to talk to her instead of deciding what's best and doing it.”
“You are doing exactly what her family did to her. Disrespecting her feelings and watching her be treated poorly.”
“YTA. Apologize to your fiancée.“
“YTA… Why would you want to force someone you claim to love to stay in a situation that made them cry?”
“You think of yourself as the decision maker, the one who knows best and honestly that is a problem.“
“YTA - I would 100% end the engagement over this. The level of disrespect you’ve shown her is absolutely staggering.”
“You knew her feelings, then went behind her back, ignored them, and pressured her.”
“YTA. She was NC for a reason. It's not your job as her fiancee to ‘fix’ her situation.”
Redditors call OP out for dragging her into a mess she spent years avoiding.
Even if he was only trying to help her, he had no right to decide what was best for her. Not everything ended happily ever after.
Thankfully, OP was given another chance. He respects her decision to make no contact with them, and her family is definitely NOT invited to the wedding.
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