Boyfriend Doesn't Want To Be Around Girlfriend's Friends And Their Kids Because He's Not At A Point In His Life Where He's Ready For Kids

If you don't like kids then I guess we understand this.

Daphnie

• Published in Interesting
• December 20, 2023

We're back with another Reddit post, and this time, we are looking at one, that's from the infamous Reddit AITA thread. This thread is such a popular one, and we dive into posts from this thread all the time here.

With this being said, today we're going to be looking into a post about t kids and how this man doesn't want to hang out with his girlfriend's friends because they have children, and he's uncomfortable with that. OP explained this much better in his post, so you'll have to read the whole thing, but he's not really comfortable with kids and doesn't like to be around them, so this is why he's looking for advice.

He explains that his girlfriend is definitely in a spot where she's ready for kids, but he's not, and people in the comments definitely heard this and ran with it because they were quick to give him their opinion on that difference they have. No matter your opinion on kids, it's definitely important to understand the whole situation here to better give OP advice.

Let's look into the full post and take a look at OP's opinion on children, what his thought process is behind this situation he's in, and how he wants to handle it; plus we'll look at all the best comments that were submitted on it as well.

OP was pretty blunt in his post and explained his situation as openly as he could without leaving out much detail.

He explains that kids will be a part of their future, but that right now he's not really interested in having anything to do with them.

His girlfriend is much different though and seems liek she's ready pretty soon where as he's not.

He doesn't seem to like anything about babies, even TikToks or other social media posts.

This is where the conflct really comes in because his girlfriend is inviting him out with her and her friend with the kids.

Obviously, she wasn't happy about this and things were really hard for her and him because obviously they weren't on the same page about this.

He gives some more perspective and just asks everyone their opinion on this and whether or not he's wrong.

Clearly they're not on the same page and maybe he really doesn't want kids and clearly she does, so that would mean they're pretty incompatable.

SOme people disagreed with the majority and said that OP is indeed the AH because of the way he's handling this overall,

Some are suggesting for him to leave his girlfriend and honestly we don't blame him because clearly they're not on the same page..

Everyone is right about her waiting for him to want kids and be interested but it's clearly not realistic for her to wait for him.

So many people had a lot to say here about this situation, and we definitely feel like people gave OP a lot of advice. Hopefully, he either has a conversation with his girlfriend about this or decides to leave her because it's clear he's not really willing to open up about this, and she's waiting for him to.

Daphnie