Mother Hesitates To Remove Allergic Child's Favorite Cat, Family Raises Concerns

"My daughter is very much so attached to her and the cat is her best friend."

Damjan

• Published in Animal Stories
• August 13, 2023

The relationship between humans and pets is often profound and life-changing. For many, pets become an integral part of the family, offering companionship, love, and, sometimes, unexpected challenges.

A recent story shared on Reddit highlights the complexities families can face when the health of a family member comes into question due to the presence of a beloved pet. The story revolves around a mother with three children and a relatively new feline member of the family.

Six months ago, the family decided to adopt a cat, which quickly became a cherished companion for all, especially one particular child. This child had been battling unexplained symptoms for roughly three years.

When she was finally referred to an allergist, it was discovered that she was allergic to an extensive list of allergens, including cats. However, this discovery presented a conundrum.

Despite testing positive for allergies, the child exhibited no allergic reactions around the cat, with whom she'd developed a strong bond. When consulted, the allergist offered a measured response, suggesting that as long as the cat was kept out of the child's bedroom, measures such as air purifiers were in place, and the child continued her prescribed medications, it would be acceptable to keep the cat.

For the family, this advice was a relief. The child, deeply attached to her furry friend, was particularly thankful.

Yet, the dilemma took another turn when extended family members weighed in, suggesting that the cat might exacerbate the child's allergies in the future and that relying solely on the doctor's advice might be misguided. They insinuated that keeping the cat might be a selfish act, putting the child's health at potential risk.

This mother nor seeks outside opinions, and Reddit is here for her:

OP asks:

Six months ago, the family decided to adopt a cat, which quickly became a cherished companion for all, especially one particular child

The child turned out to be allergic. The doctor said that it would be okay to keep the cat, but the extended family disagrees

OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the a-hole:

It is always great to have "experts" in your family...:)

Who needs doctors, right?

People should listen to certified professionals

Some people simply need to feel superior

"As long as your doctor says it's fine..."

This is a good advice:

This story really highlights the tough choices many families go through. Pets mean a lot to us, but we also have to look out for our family's health. It's super hard, especially when what the doctor says goes against what others think or feel.

In this story, the mom is stuck in the middle. She wants to listen to the doctor, but she also sees how much her daughter loves the cat and hears the worries of other family members.

Every family's situation is different, and making health decisions can be really complicated. At the end of the day, it's up to the family to figure out what's best.

They must consider the doctor's advice, how everyone feels, and what could happen in the long run. Talking openly, being kind to each other, and trying to understand everyone's point of view is key.

Because this story is all about a family doing their best for everyone, whether they walk on two legs or four.

Damjan