Man Criticized For Playing Video Games During Work Hours, Defends Lifestyle Choices At Dinner Party

"I don’t think I was rude for stopping someone insulting me in my house while they were eating my food and enjoying my drink."

Sophia

• Published in Interesting
• May 29, 2024

At a casual wine and cheese night, a conversation about work-life balance unexpectedly turned into a heated debate. A man enjoying the perks of remote work shared how he balances his professional responsibilities with leisure activities like gaming during work hours.

This laid-back approach sparked criticism from a guest who challenged the ethics of playing games while on the clock. The conversation escalated when the guest, perhaps feeling the pressure of his own demanding job, accused the host of not living up to traditional gender roles and relying too much on his partner, despite the host earning well and managing both household duties and his job efficiently.

The host defended his lifestyle, emphasizing his efficiency at work and the financial contributions he makes, which exceed those of his doctor partner. This incident highlights the clash between traditional views on work ethics and modern work arrangements, where remote work can offer flexibility that seems indulgent to those in more traditional or demanding roles.

It also touches on sensitive topics like gender roles and financial dependency in relationships, showing how quickly discussions can become personal and polarized based on individual perspectives and experiences.

Such scenarios underscore the importance of respecting diverse lifestyles and choices, especially when they deviate from conventional expectations.

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OP doesn't think they're wrong, but others strongly disagree.

OP and his partner (29) hosted a wine and cheese night with a couple, including the partner's friend and her new boyfriend.

He works remotely, manages his workload well, and has time for a lunch walk, housework, and cooking.

He rarely works long hours, unlike his partner and their friends, who are overworked doctors.

The new boyfriend got quite drunk during the night, but since they were all drinking, it's understandable.

His partner joked about him playing PlayStation during work, especially Baldur's Gate 3.

When he mentioned his progress in the game, the new boyfriend criticized him for playing during work.

He defended his work ethic, but the new boyfriend insulted him, implying he's just a trophy husband for doing chores.

He sarcastically agreed, mentioning housework. The new boyfriend sneered at depending on a woman for chores.

He shrugged it off, earns more than his doctor wife, and works from home.

His girlfriend apologized but accused him of rudeness for defending himself in the home.

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It seems he prescribed himself a dose of humility after receiving a reality check from OP.

"You are fully capable of standing up for yourself I'm sure."

Rude guests get a one-way ticket off the guest list. By the way, are they hiring? Asking for a friend with manners.

NTA. Sounds like jealousy is his favorite color, but it doesn't suit him. Keep shining!

Playing along isn't villainous; it spices up the party. His fragile ego? Not OP's problem; just keep living the dream.

NTA. Well played, indeed. Consider the jealousy a compliment; it suits them well.

Not the asshole. Some folks just can't appreciate the masterpiece of work-life balance.

Some doctors need a reality check: the world spins on with or without their stethoscopes.

Friend's off base; wife, shut it down. Doctor egos could fill a hospital wing.

He swung, missed, and now he's sulking like a sore loser.

Navigating modern work perks can sometimes feel like playing a tricky level in a video game—easy to judge, hard to master. Maybe next time, keeping the controller on pause could save more than just game progress; it might just preserve the peace during cheese night!

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