Two Friends Go Toe-To-Toe Over The Custody Of A Rescued Cat

These friends have found themselves in a custody cat-astrophe.

Jesse

• Published in Interesting
• July 13, 2023

Once upon a time, in the midst of life's unpredictable twists and turns, a little furball named Jiji found her way into the hearts of two families.

Looking back, our narrator (Original Poster) had already been contemplating the idea of welcoming a feline companion into her life. It was during this period that her friend stumbled upon an abandoned kitten.

Realizing that OP had been considering getting a cat, he thought he had found the perfect solution—especially because he and his wife weren't ready to adopt a pet just yet.

Though OP was elated at the idea of adopting the cat, there was a little problem. She was preparing to embark on a trip that would take her away for two weeks.

Since her friend lived five hours away, she politely asked if he could hold onto the cat (Jiji) until her return. He gladly agreed, and plans were set in motion for a heartwarming reunion.

When the moment finally arrived, Jiji was introduced to OP's home; but a cloud of uncertainty cast its shadow on this happy adoption. The friend, plagued by a lingering sadness after bidding farewell to the kitten, began expressing his longing for Jiji's return.

What started as casual messages soon escalated into a heartfelt plea as he desperately tried to convince OP that Jiji belonged with his family.

OP’s friend made promises of assistance, offering to find another cat and even cover the expenses she had incurred. But OP remained steadfast in her decision to keep Jiji.

The friend, fueled by frustration, labeled OP as selfish. He argued that he and his family had formed a bond with Jiji during the three weeks that she spent with them, unlike OP, who had spent just one night with the cat.

He even claimed that his marriage could hit the rocks if Jiji were not returned. OP has been feeling guilty ever since, and she has decided to bring the matter before the Reddit community for deliberation.

Check out the verdict below.

Let's dig into the details

A bit of background

Now OP's friend wants the kitten back, but OP is not willing to budge

Update

Here's how the Reddit community reacted to the story:

"I think you’re in the right to refuse. Him using his kids as an excuse could be his attempt at manipulating you"

"This sounds like a bigger issue then the cat tbh."

"I would give the cat back if I were you. It's not like you're really bonded with it yet."

"NTA...He's a married 37 year old threatening a 29 year old female with emotional blackmail."

"Make sure everything is documented and if he tries again please go to the cops"

"Give it back and you may stay friends but it won't be the same relationship"

OP has found herself torn between her own attachment to Jiji and her friend's apparent distress. But who will be the first to budge?

The Reddit community firmly supports OP and acknowledges that she is now Jiji's rightful owner. Maybe her friend shouldn't have let go in the first place if he really loved the cat.

Do you agree with the commenters? Share your thoughts with us.

Jesse