Bride's Elder Sister Goes Into Emotional Outburst After She Was Excluded From The Wedding

"I guess it wouldve been better for you if i was still bedridden"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• May 14, 2024

While organizing a wedding may appear to be one of the most exciting aspects of getting ready for the wedding, budgeting is the foundation of all wedding planning. Budgets are crucial in the wedding planning process.

Not having a wedding budget is like attempting to hit a nail on the head without looking to see if it will land. You can end up doing harm and having to make amends for your errors later on.

One of the best things you can do in the early stages of wedding preparation is to set a budget. It will assist you in considering what matters to you both on a practical level.

The narrator of today's story and her fiancé started planning their wedding as they wanted a small, intimate affair with only 65 guests, including the wedding party. OP's sister stays across the country, and she was supposed to be her maid of honor.

She enthusiastically helped with the planning until she faced a serious health issue about a month before the wedding. OP's sister was advised not to travel after her surgeries, which meant she would miss the wedding.

OP tried to move her wedding, but her sister was against it. They carried on only for OP's sister to show up at the wedding at the at the last minute, but she couldn't enjoy the event because it was strictly on a budget.

Read the full story below to find out what happened.

The story's title

OP's sister who stays across the country, was supposed to be OP's maid of honor

She had gotten clearance from her doctor to travel last minute

OP's sister had to squeeze in next to their cousin

She wouldn't have been able to sit with the wedding party as they had a color scheme

OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the a-hole:

I might be the a-hole because I failed to properly accommodate my sister at my wedding after she made the effort to attend despite health concerns.This could have made her feel excluded and ignored, which wasn't my intention but could have been the result of my oversight and lack of consideration.

The Reddit post got hundreds of comments and here are a bunch of them

People plan for you not to be there

This Redditor would have eaten before arriving

No wonder OP's sister hung up on her

She shouldn't have surprised the OP

That's an AH reason not to invite her

The colour scheme moment

Although the sister's heart seemed to be in the right place and she made every effort to attend OP's wedding, it was a mistake for her to wait to tell anyone as soon as the doctor gave her the all-clear. Even though she may have wanted to surprise the OP, many Redditors didn't think it was a good idea to surprise a woman on her wedding day.

She ought to have told someone else before then so that arrangements can be made for her. Eventually, the OP was declared not the AH.

Maryjane