35 Instances Of Employers Writing Such Delusional Memos That Their Employees Felt Compelled To Expose Them
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"I work in a school…literally had this issue with 2 five year olds today!"
Not unlike the mythological story of Psyche and Eros, a 37-year-old OP was also forbidden by her fiancée from looking at her face. Her fiancée, J, forbade OP from doing so because she had a stye in one of her eyes.
She thought the barely noticeable style made her look unattractive. In the year they have been together, OP understood that the root of her fiancée's insecurities was her tumultuous 18-year marriage.
J's ex-husband was a serial cheater who constantly put her down until she had little to no self-worth. It made J critical of her looks and why she felt ashamed of her stye infection.
J thought her eye looked worse and asked OP not to look at her. OP laughed and sleepily asked her fiancée if it was a joke.
J said she was serious and repeated her request. OP agreed to J's request, which included buying her an eyepatch.
They stayed home all day, but J kept complaining about how hideous she must look because of the infection. OP made the mistake of looking at J in an attempt to give her a genuine assurance that her face wasn't as marred as she thought.
J was furious, left their bed, and locked herself in the bathroom. She only opened the door when OP knocked to give her the eyepatch.
OP did not ask for any advice if she should stay in a relationship with J. Redditors' advice about running for the hills fell on deaf ears because OP doesn't see J's behavior as a deal-breaker.
She only wanted to know if she was a jerk for not following J's demand to not look at her face. OP wasn't the jerk in that case, but she and J need to find a way to communicate healthier because how they handled that issue was concerning.