Devastated Man Intends Calling Off His Wedding After Finding Out That His Fiancee Worked As An Escort

"I was still devastated when I saw these pictures"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• December 18, 2023

Your relationship may suffer greatly when your spouse cheats, and the hurt and betrayal you experience when you discover that your loved one is a hired escort are only intensified. Sure, there are ways to verify or refute your suspicions if you think your partner or spouse is an escort on the side.

Discovering the truth about a situation might be difficult at times. But let's be honest - the majority of people on the planet believe that selling sex is just wrong.

There is a stigma unique to the job, but it still doesn't stop people from doing it. Besides, it's still people that patronize them, but it's not everyone that can tolerate their significant other having several partners for sex most of the time.

The OP has been dating his fiancée for two years and has been engaged for 8 months. Their wedding is coming soon, but the OP found out she worked as an escort.

"Diana is a beautiful woman both inside and out. She has a very lively personality and is definitely the most attractive woman I have dated. She is quite outgoing and actually asked me out. Our relationship has been going very well so far," the OP wrote.

The OP didn't believe it at first, but when he confronted his fiancee, she confirmed it. The OP was shocked and didn't believe Diana should be ashamed of her past career.

He felt he should have been made aware, and now he's in a dilemma about what to do.

OP writes

OP's fiancee is definitely the most attractive woman he has dated

A few have pretty conservative morals when it comes to sexuality

The comments roll in...

Starting off with the easy one

This Redditor would break it off

She has been a supportive and loving partner

A Redditor had this to pitch in

Personally, this doesn’t sound like a deal breaker to me. She did this line of work long before she met you and moved on from it. She probably felt embarrassed about it, but the past is the past, and if she’s been a great partner now that means she’s a great partner.

And just because she viewed sexuality one way then doesn’t she views it the same way now. She waited to have to sex just as you did, which shows a lot.

So I suggest speaking with her more thoroughly about it before making any major decisions. Additionally, you need to tell her that someone is actively trying to mess with her life with those screenshots you saw. That’s the right thing to do both as a partner and a human being.

Being with someone you're comfortable with

Don't call of the wedding yet

How should the OP tell her?

Diana probably knew that as well

Someone who treats sex as a commodity

Redditors said the OP needs to notify the police since the screenshots suggest that his partner is being followed and harassed. But seriously, Diana needs to know of the screenshots, even if they decide not to keep the relationship.

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Maryjane