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The OP almost immediately got the vibe that he was much more interested in her as a person
It’s incredibly irritating and it’s happened so many times that he has to go outside
Let's hear what other redditors have to advice the OP
The OP clearly hates how her boyfriend treats her better
He just didn't care enough to do it for the OP
There's a lack of boundary enforcement on his end
The OP kept asking what she's going to do in the comments
What should I do here? how should I address it? I've already tried to speak to him about it but he says I'm being 'crazy' and most recently said I was jealous of her because she is younger than me, which really pissed me off. I don't know how to go about addressing their dynamic. he just doesn't get it.
The OP should troubling herself about that
The OP can see the hand writing boldly written on the wall
He is terrible at setting boundaries with her
It's not she begged the OP's boyfriend to buy her a cake or hang out with her
The bad feeling the OP has should be for how she's being treated
A person who is overly friendly might never really be recognized or taken seriously but this roommate is really striving to take up space in the life of the OP's boyfriend. Many redditors say that this isn’t just the OP being generally insecure or controlling, because she has no problems with his other female friends, or even his last female roommate.
His interaction with this specific woman is very clearly the problem and we hoped it gets fixed.