TikToker Explains What Men Think Women Find Attractive Compared With What Women Actually Find Attractive And It Is Super Interesting

Let's talk about the female gaze...

Rachel

• Published in Interesting
• June 26, 2021

Okay, before we get into this, it is super, super important to state that all bodies are good bodies. What is important is that YOU are happy, and that YOU like how it looks--all bodies are wonderful simply because they take care of us.

Sometimes, though, people get very into trying to understand what makes themselves attractive to others and trying to live up to this ideal. It does not always work out the way you think, and there might be a reason for it.

This tiktoker, after seeing someone confused about it, explained the idea of the female gaze.

First up, this guy posts his stories.

What he looks like now:

What he looked like before:

Tbh, he looks great in both!

BUT, ENTER: someone who has been waiting for this!

I'm sure someone has asked them what the point of a gender studies minor is, and THIS IS IT.

Firstly: the female gaze is based on eyes and hands.

The term "male power fantasy" is introduced

It's the difference between what women want, and what men think they want.

OOP!

And here it is...

Find the full video below!

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So there you have it! The female gaze! Tell us your thoughts in the comments!

Don't forget though, everyone is beautiful in their own way--regardless of what society might say.

Rachel