Woman Snaps And Sends Her Rude Teenage Daughter To Live With Her Cheating Dad Since She Always Accuses Her Of Being The Cause Of Their Divorce

"For the first time since I found out my husband cheated I feel...lighter"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• May 17, 2023

The act of engaging in emotional or sexual intimacy with someone beyond the confines of your marriage or relationship is referred to as infidelity, also known as cheating or adultery. Infidelity can occur offline or online, and it may or may not involve sexual interactions. 

Without specific proof, it might be challenging to determine whether your partner is cheating on you. However, there are certain indicators that your partner might be having an affair.

There are typically several red flags that alert you to the possibility of infidelity. The OP of today's story divorced her husband years ago because he cheated on her with a much younger girl.

The OP's daughter was 12 when they divorced and is 15 now. Despite the OP's selfish desire to tell her daughter why they were divorcing, her ex convinced her not to do so.

The OP now regrets doing that because her daughter has convinced herself that it was her fault that her father moved out and has a new girlfriend, and she blames her constantly. The OP has tried everything to make her daughter see the reasons but to no avail.

She made a comment that riled the OP up one day, and she had to spill why the marriage ended while packing her daughter's bag to go stay with her dad since she preferred him over her.

The headline

OP's daughter's convinced herself that it was her fault her father moved out

OP's ex has apparently been poisoning her own baby against her

OP told her that her precious father started dating his girlfriend while they were still together

The OP definitely thinks she has gone to far but she feels lighter

Let the comments roll in...

Time for family counseling

Things might have gone different if she knew from the start

It depends upon the level of sophistication and the kid's age

This Redditor is sorry about what happened to the OP

This Redditor is sharing since it's a common advice

The OP let her daughter get manipulated by them

The OP has an opportunity to try and work things through

The OP should text her daughter or email her

The OP went on to add the necessary edits

The OP is still very close with her ex's siblings

The OP has gone on to apologize to her daughter via email

And here comes the second edit

The OP and her ex have been divorced for three years now

The OP told her daughter how she found out her dad was cheating on her

The OP's daughter said she's sorry for not being a good daughter

She has to turn in her phone before she goes to bed

And here's the final part...

The OP also reveals that she has heard all these stories about kids, especially daughters, taking their fathers' sides after their parents split and not the mothers' side. She thought maybe it wouldn't happen, so there was no need to tell her daughter her dad cheated, but she thinks it was more about the fact that her ex-husband took advantage of the situation.

Maryjane