Disloyal Sister Gets Labelled An A**hole By The Reddit Community For Hooking Up With Her BIL And Having A Baby With Him

"This is championship level a**holery."

Stephanie

• Published in Interesting
• December 7, 2023

We all make mistakes and have regrets in life; we're all human, after all. But when our actions affect the people we love, things can get tricky pretty fast.

Reddit user u/isaacballs knows exactly how problematic past mistakes can become with family, and she recently shared her story in the r/AITA (Am I The A**hole?) subreddit. She explained that her sister and her ex-husband were married for six years, and they have one child together.

During their divorce, the OP spent a lot of time with her sister's husband, and they developed feelings for each other. They started hooking up, and as a result, the OP got pregnant and they now have a son together.

The OP says that her relationships with her family members have been rocky ever since (for obvious reasons). And the OP's partner (her sister's ex) is not welcome around any of her family anymore.

The Redditor says her father is the only one who has stuck by her and her son over the years, but he also doesn't want anything to do with her partner. The OP's dad says he will never have a relationship with him because of how he disrespected his other daughter and their entire family with his actions.

Now the Redditor is refusing to bring her son over to her dad's house unless her partner is welcome there too. Keep scrolling to see how people reacted.

The Redditor asked if she's an a**hole for refusing to take her son to her father's house unless her partner is welcome there as well.

She explained that, during her sister's divorce, the OP hooked up with her then husband and ended up pregnant with his child.

The OP says they had always been good friends, and they spent a lot of time together during the separation.

They developed feelings for each other, and ended up having a child together as a result.

The OP says her dad refuses to have a relationship with her partner because of the way they got together.

Now the OP is wondering if she's the a**hole here.

Here's how people reacted.

YTA.

"Your selfish choices led you here."

"It sounds like you have some issues with your sister."

More than just TA.

"This is championship level a**holery."

"Maybe try thinking about someone else other than yourself for once."

"I'd be sick to my stomach if I were your dad."

"Your dad needs to cut you out of his life for his own peace and sanity."

"The whole situation is icky."

It's all on you!

"There are consequences to actions."

"Why am I not surprised?"

You're both AH's!

"Girllll...!"

WTF!

What are your thoughts on this situation? Do you think the OP is being unreasonable here, or should her father be more accepting of her relationship for the sake of his grandson?

We would love to hear your opinions on this. You can share your thoughts with us in the comment section.

Stephanie