The OP kicks off her story
As much as the OP feels sorry for her, she can’t find it in her to take care of the sister
OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:
I think I could be the a-hole because she wouldn’t have asked if she wasn’t out of options so she must be desperate, her world if falling apart and I could help I just don’t want to.
Let's head into the comments section and find out what other Redditors have to say regarding the story
This Redditor wants to know if the sister doesn't have any insurance
Another Redditor asking about the insurance
They do not like each other
The OP won't be helpful enough and the resentment is both sides
The OP could drop by just to put away groceries
This is a terrible misfortune for the OP's step sister
The best option might be to split responsibilities
The OP could give them a gift cert for food
It's no doubt that OP's step sister has suffered a great deal, but Redditors agreed that OP is not the one who has to solve her issue or take responsibility for it. If her step sister has any friends in the region, she can ask them to help, or she can check to see what her insurance will cover.
If not, then OP's parent and stepparent will need to assist in whatever way they can. The OP was declared not the AH and you can drop your own verdict in the comments section below.