Insecure Woman Reveals Why She's Getting Divorced To Her Husband's Kid, Ends Up Ruining The Kid's Friendship With Her Best Friend

"Months of therapy weren’t able to repair his trust in me"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• December 29, 2023

Yes, Relationships can be uplifting and transformative. And again, they can be traumatizing if one partner can't face their own fears and unfairly criticizes, snaps, and behaves in a restricting manner toward their lover.

Conversely, good partners focus on a wider and brighter picture of their lives and are confident in who they are, which can make you feel loved, free, and respected all at the same time. For some people, life might be difficult at times and cause them to lose confidence.

But insecurity can weaken the emotional connection between couples and cause major problems in their personal, professional, or even romantic relationships. In certain situations, it becomes more concerning when one partner has insecurities about the other.

This develops further into unpleasant feelings like resentment and jealousy. It is vital to take care of this early on, before the insecurity grows larger, in order to have a happy and healthy relationship. 

The OP of today's story got a divorce from her husband. Her husband has two kids, and one of them wanted to know why they were separating, so she asked the OP.

The insecure OP told the 15-year-old girl that her best friend's mom was the reason. The OP said a lot more, all because of her insecurities.

The outcome of it wasn't pleasant, and it ended up destroying the relationship she had with the kid. The full story lies below, so you can keep scrolling to check it out.

OP writes

She asked the OP why she and her dad were getting divorce

They got into a physical fight at school which resulted in both their parents being called

She wants to move to a new school where no one knows her mum

OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

I told my step daughter that her best friend's mum is the reason that her dad and I are getting divorced. I also told her about the previous affair between them. Everyone is upset with me and the best friend wants to move schools because everyone thinks her mum is a whore.

And the comments went viral

It sounds like revenge

It wasn't the truth

The OP kissed another man

In the comments, the OP revealed why she and her husband went for therapy

I kissed another man on a night out with my sister and some friends, one of our friends told him before I was able to. It was a stupid mistake, but I had been enjoying the attention after feeling neglected by Jack.

Her life will never be the same

Keeping things short and simple

Trying to vindicate yourself

The OP can't justify her reasons for doing what she did

Redditors say that the OP blew the girl's life up for no reason other than her own bitterness. Her best friend wants to drop out of school after they got into a fight which means that they have to live their lives destroyed due to the OP's unwillingness to acknowledge that she were the one who ended her own marriage.

As you can already tell, the OP was declared the AH and that's a wrap.

Maryjane