Redditor Gives A Detailed List Of Reasons Why She Doesn't Want A Friend To Live With Her, Friend Tags Them "Insane Rules"

"I only wanted to show that my hesitation wasn't born out of pure selfishness"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• February 25, 2023

Many health problems are caused when a virus, contaminant, or other factor alters or disrupts the body's natural metabolism. Those who are unable to take care of themselves receive personal health care.

The well-being of one's emotional, intellectual, social, economic, spiritual, and other areas of life are all considered to be aspects of one's own health. Personal health problems might result from two different types of circumstances.

One kind, such as nutrition, lifestyle, and physical activity, can be altered to enhance health status. The second category, in contrast, cannot be changed in order to address common health issues, including genes, family history, and ethnicity.

The OP in today's story is a 29-year-old woman who is fully aware that she is very difficult to live with. While some of that is based on the OP's choices, more of it is due to health issues out of her control.

The OP also mentioned that she hadn't had a roommate since college, and she's not looking to have one again. But then, her casual friend lost her apartment and had a terrible time finding something within her budget.

She has asked the OP if she could stay with her for 2 months, so the OP listed her requirements, which this friend couldn't keep. Read the entire story for yourself as you keep scrolling below. 

The Headline

The OP admits that she is a very difficult person to live with

And the list of requirements begins

The friend couldn't be home during my work hours unless she stayed in her bedroom

The OP intended this list as a way to demonstrate why it could not work

Let's head into the comments section and see what redditors have to chirp in

You wouldn't have been forced to go into detail

No is actually a complete sentence

You shouldn't give reasons why you can't do something

She would agree to the rules if she was desperate

It still doesn't give her a right to live with you

No is an appropriate response

You don't actually have room for another person

The struggle is real

Your no should have been enough

You were trying to explain because you feel guilty

You bent as best as you could

It does sound extremely difficult for you

You already knew you didn't want her in your house

It's not your responsibility to house her

You're allowed to say no because it's a s complete sentence

A genuine friend would respect your decision

You're about to demote her down several levels from casual friend

You were trying to show her why you said no

Your home is your safe space

The wellbeing of individuals is tied to personal health issues. Personal health factors include things like the environment, body mass index, nutrition, and lifestyle.

You must pay attention to these all-personal health concerns if you want to improve your quality of life and avoid being sick. The OP was only trying to avoid getting sick and Redditors understood that.

Maryjane