Man Gives Pregnant Daughter A Month To Pack Out After She Sent His Cat To A Shelter Without Informing Him

"With the baby coming, we didn't think it was safe to keep an old grouchy cat around an infant"

Maryjane
Man Gives Pregnant Daughter A Month To Pack Out After She Sent His Cat To A Shelter Without Informing Him

Cats develop close bonds with their human owners. There are numerous documented instances where cats show signs of distress after the owner has passed away or had to leave.

Cats have been observed to meow while perched outside the owner’s bedroom door. Some will hide, and they won’t even eat.

Some healthy cats developed such a strong bond with their owners that, when their human passed away, they equally joined them, with a broken heart appearing to be the only cause. Even cats have been known to lick tears.

So why would anyone want to send such an adorable creature back to the shelter? Or is it that they don’t know that cats living in shelters can experience a lot of stress, which makes them more susceptible to both physical and behavioral issues like weight loss, excessive grooming, self-trauma, aggression, withdrawal, urinary issues, and upper respiratory infections?

Such issues not only cause the cats pain but also decrease their chances of being adopted soon, creating a vicious cycle that can be challenging to stop. In today’s AITA story, the OP’s pregnant daughter sent his cat to the shelter because she didn't think it was safe to keep an old grouchy cat around an infant.

Well, the OP wasn’t having it and issued her a quit notice. Read the whole story as you keep scrolling below. 

And here we have the title

And here we have the titleu/AITAthownaway

The OP found the cat in a dumpster

The OP found the cat in a dumpsteru/AITAthownaway

We made a decision to send the cat to the shelter

We made a decision to send the cat to the shelteru/AITAthownaway

She kept insisting that old cat are dangerous for kids

She kept insisting that old cat are dangerous for kidsu/AITAthownaway

My daughter should come before a cat

My daughter should come before a catu/AITAthownaway

The Reddit post got a lot of attention as it was upvoted more than 24K along with 2.8K comments. We've gathered a bunch of their replies for you below.

It also doesn't quite add up

It also doesn't quite add upReddit

Many people believe cats are dangerous to babies

Many people believe cats are dangerous to babiesReddit

Plenty of people can maintain a cat and an infant

Plenty of people can maintain a cat and an infantReddit

I don't trust their behavior following this

I don't trust their behavior following thisReddit

You should get your cat microchipped just in case

You should get your cat microchipped just in caseReddit

Cat has more rights than her

Cat has more rights than herReddit

She can't remove a member of the family without asking you

She can't remove a member of the family without asking youReddit

It's absurd and selfish to come into your home...

It's absurd and selfish to come into your home...Reddit

She might learn the world doesn't owe her a living

She might learn the world doesn't owe her a livingReddit

I would just as mad as the daughter

I would just as mad as the daughterReddit

She is lucky you gave her a month

She is lucky you gave her a monthReddit

Your daughter has been listening to old wives tales

Your daughter has been listening to old wives talesReddit

You are surrounded by inconsiderate people

You are surrounded by inconsiderate peopleReddit

Why do people think it's okay to throw away animals?

Why do people think it's okay to throw away animals?Reddit

How dare they do that?

How dare they do that?Reddit

Sending your cat to a shelter was underhanded

Sending your cat to a shelter was underhandedReddit

A lesser person would put on the streets immediately

A lesser person would put on the streets immediatelyReddit

You throwing her out is an overreaction

You throwing her out is an overreactionReddit

This Redditor is wondering what kind of people they are

This Redditor is wondering what kind of people they areReddit

Kids grow up but domestic animals are dependent

Kids grow up but domestic animals are dependentReddit

The OP added this edit later on...

The OP added this edit later on...Reddit

The numerous documented instances where cats have traveled hundreds or even thousands of miles through places they have never been to find their owners provide the most striking proof that cats genuinely care about people. Many cat owners claim that their feline companion will offer solace when they are distressed, and the OP’s cat did just that.

So the OP's girlfriend was wrong to send the cat away.

Maryjane