Man Throws Baby Shower Without Inviting Baby's Mother

This is such a controversial subject and many are surprised.

Daphnie

• Published in Interesting
• January 13, 2024

We're back again today with another Reddit post and this post is from the infamous AITA Reddit thread that we've looked into so much because of how entertaining they can be. With this being said, we are looking into a post today that was submitted by a guy who wants to know if he's in the wrong for having a whole baby shower for himself without inviting his baby's mom.

He says that they are separated and his family was the one that threw a funny baby shower for him and asked if they should invite the baby's mother, to which he said no. So they didn't invite her and now the baby's mom is upset and many in the comments had a lot today about this.

They had tons of opinions and even though OP maybe was doing it as a joke, many people thought he was being rude by doing this. It's pretty interesting to see how people responded here and also to see that a man had a baby shower thrown for him without his baby's mom.

This is such an interesting post and story that we wanted to share with everyone because there are a lot of different things that have been said here. If you're interested in looking at the full post and all of the best comments on it as well then keep on reading.

This is how he starts off the post and he explains that he is no longer with the baby's mom but she's 26 weeks pregnant.

His family wanted to throw him a baby shower for giggles basically.

He didn't want his baby's mother to be there and if they're separated then we understand why he might not want her there.

He explains just a bit about how the party went and that he had fun while having the party.

He even goes into detail about some fun photos that he took with his friends while at the baby shower.

He said that his ex was very upset about this and told him that he was wrong for having this baby shower.

People immediately came to the comments and this person said that OP was TA here and people must have agreed because this comment got 20K upvotes.

Here is the rest of the comment from above.

This person felt like he was undeserving of the baby shower but we disagree because men need ot be present too, so it's important that he understands too.

We definitely get why she was upset too but it's not his responsibility to throw her one either and we don't know what happened in their relationship.

They obviously do have unresolved issues so it's best that they get help now before the baby gets here.

It seems like his family had good intentions especially to ask if they could invite her but also it's just a little weird.

This is also true too so like we said before it's not his responsibility.

People had so much to say here and the verdicts were honestly pretty split on what they thought about this situation. Regardless, we honestly just hope that OP decides o have a conversation with his baby's mom so they can get on the same page because it seems like they have a bit of a toxic relationship.

Daphnie