Married Man Fails In Trying To Kiss His Married Nursing Neighbour, Gets His Daughter Fired In The Process

"I trusted him more to drive safe than a random Uber"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• July 6, 2024

Crossing boundaries is never acceptable, especially when it involves physical touch. A person's personal space and body are their own and should not be violated by anyone else.

Kissing someone without their consent is a clear violation of that barrier. It is crucial to remember that just because you have a connection with or are comfortable with someone does not imply that they owe you physical attention.

Everyone has the right to their own boundaries, and it is critical to respect them. No one should attempt to cross those boundaries without specific consent, as this is what gave rise to the OP's story today.

Despite his nice demeanor, OP's neighbor Dan behaved extra towards her, and this made her husband uncomfortable. He had noticed it earlier and told the OP, but she had dismissed it.

That was until the day her car broke down in a parking lot, leaving her stranded with her eight-month-old child. With no one else to turn to, OP called her husband, who grudgingly told her to contact their neighbor for assistance.

What happened next made her feel violated and afraid, as Dan's actions crossed the limit. It led the OP to rethink everything, as her husband decided not to let Dan's daughter watch their son.

OP believes that Dan's daughter should not be penalized for her father's behavior but she's divided between loyalty to her spouse and being fair to the babysitter.

The headline

OP's husband has a pretty affluent/white collar job and they moved into a fancy neighborhood

The neighbour's daughter pretty much just watches her son for a few hours

The OP was honestly fine just leaving her car in the target parking lot

The OP called him just about every name under the sun and took off into her house

They could consider letting her stay as their babysitter but OP's husband just won’t hear it

The OP provided a summary just in case you couldn't read the whole story

My neighbor tried to kiss me while I had my baby in my arms. Do I have to fire his 15 year old daughter who is my babysitter, like my husband is suggesting?

Let's head into the comments section and find out what other Redditors have to say regarding the story

The OP needs to cut contact with them and document everything

It is just messy to have anything to do with his family

That would line up with what the OP's husband really wants

This Redditor believes that OP's husband is right in his decision

This Redditor advices the OP to file a police report

OP's trust was violated when their neighbor, Dan, made an inappropriate move. His daughter has been babysitting OP's son, but her husband doesn't want her to continue and Redditors supported his decision.

The OP must prioritize her family's safety and determine what is best for them. A difficult decision lies ahead, but we trust that the OP will do the right thing no matter how difficult it is.

Maryjane