The OP kicks off her story
They made OP's husband sign the back of the deed like he's selling it
Their original plan was to stay put until they passed but the OP is tired as it's been 8 years
OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:
I asked my husband to move because I am tired of living between his mother and sister. His mom has stage four colon cancer and we have lived here 8 years.
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It's up to the husband if he wants to stay
What does OP's husband think about all this?
Holding back the deed could be tax fraud
When the OP has the key to her new place
Husband can decide to come or not
Living rent free with her husband
The OP needs to take control of her own life
The OP should get out
Since the house's documents bear the name of the husband, Redditors told the OP to have a lawyer check them. The OP was also told to have a talk with her husband as it can be less expensive and quite legal to remain in the house and the plan will not work unless he agrees.
Then, she can let her in-laws know about it, replace the locks, and stop giving a damn about what they would like to do with it.