Woman Is Confused As Husband Refuses To Close Bedroom Door At Night Due To The Cats, Despite Having Guests

"I feel like I’m coming second to his cats and I feel like he’s being extremely inconsiderate"

Maryjane
Woman Is Confused As Husband Refuses To Close Bedroom Door At Night Due To The Cats, Despite Having Guests

When a woman's pregnancy is confirmed, she usually starts to fall in love with her unborn child. When she first notices her baby moving inside of her, she is overcome with delight.

She frequently finds pleasure in cradling her growing belly and finds it amazing that life is developing inside her. The pregnancy goal is the same for all women, regardless of how easily they become pregnant or how difficult it is for them to stay pregnant.

Because of the fact that she is focused on having a baby, she can handle any negative pregnancy symptoms that may arise. She and her partner are ecstatic about the arrival of their child, and sharing this joy with others (like your pets) is such a blessing.

But what happens when it feels as though your partner is placing you in second place despite being heavily pregnant? This is what the Redditor named u/Wrong_association345 is facing in her home.

The OP and her husband agreed for the OP’s mom and boyfriend to stay in their home for a while since their house is being built. But then, the OP’s husband refuses to close their room door, saying that "he likes to leave it open so the cats can come in and out."

This leaves their guests seeing them literally naked every morning, and the OP’s husband doesn’t seem to care.

OP asks:

OP asks:Wrong_association345
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I'm expecting my baby soon

I'm expecting my baby soonWrong_association345
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He insists on keeping the door open

He insists on keeping the door openWrong_association345
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I'm coming second to his cats

I'm coming second to his catsWrong_association345
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The comments started rolling in and Redditors couldn't comprehend how the OP's husband was just being weird about the situation. They aired their views and we've gathered some of them for you to go through.

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1. A real issue

1. A real issueReddit
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2. Way out of line

2. Way out of lineReddit
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3. You can leave the door cracked enough

3. You can leave the door cracked enoughReddit
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4. Installing a kitty door

4. Installing a kitty doorReddit
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5. It would be nice if your husband cared

5. It would be nice if your husband caredReddit
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6. He needs to learn to shut the door

6. He needs to learn to shut the doorReddit
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7. They close their bedroom door

7. They close their bedroom doorReddit
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8. This is not the way a partner talks to you

8. This is not the way a partner talks to youReddit
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9. Lol... This really cracked me up

9. Lol... This really cracked me upReddit
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10. Your husband is so weird about this

10. Your husband is so weird about thisReddit

11. Buying a kitty door

11. Buying a kitty doorReddit

12. He's taking it out on you

12. He's taking it out on youReddit

13. He doesn't like your mum and the boyfriend

13. He doesn't like your mum and the boyfriendReddit

14. She doesn't necessarily have an issue

14. She doesn't necessarily have an issueReddit

15. I'd be willing to switch sides on the bed

15. I'd be willing to switch sides on the bedReddit

16. You could get a wedge or something

16. You could get a wedge or somethingReddit

17. An obvious solution

17. An obvious solutionReddit

18. They asked to stay with us

18. They asked to stay with usReddit

19. He can compromise for a short time

19. He can compromise for a short timeReddit

20. The cats aren't mistreated if you close the door

20. The cats aren't mistreated if you close the doorReddit

It's weird that the OP's husband doesn't even want to see reasons with her. From the comments, the OP revealed that the husband doesn't even want to consider options and it's kind of suspicious.

Anyways, you can also add your own thoughts about this story below. And do share this post as well.

Maryjane