Guy's Tinder Hookup Gets Pregnant And Expects Him To Cater To Her Every Need, He Objects As They Are Not In A Relationship

It's always difficult when something like this happens but we hope they can work out an agreement.

Daphnie

• Published in Interesting
• July 6, 2023

We're back again today with another AITA thread post from Reddit that we'll be looking into. These posts are usually pretty entertaining, and they usually get a lot of comments and feedback on the post itself.

So with this being said, today we are taking a look at a post that was submitted by a man who wants to know if he's in the wrong for telling his baby's mother that he cannot cater to her every need. Now, this situation is definitely something that you'll need to read the whole post for because it's important to know the details in order to make a decision on how you feel about it.

Basically, he and his baby's mom was sleeping together, but they hadn't established a relationship at all. She ended up pregnant and now is going through pregnancy, looking to lean on her baby's father.

He said that she's asked for him to be with her and help her out, bring her stuff, and just hang out with her, but he doesn't seem intrigued to do anything with her that he doesn't have to do. It's also more difficult because he says that he's not ready for a relationship at all due to him just getting out of one himself before he started sleeping with her.

So let's dive in and see what the full story was so you can make your vote.

OP starts by explaining that he's been hooking up with someone not too long after he ended a relationship which hurt him heavily.

Then he goes into details about what role he's playing and just overall his actual responsibilities when it comes to the mother of his child.

People were a little conflicted in the comments but most told him that he's NTA because they are not in a relationship and were not in a relationship at the time of conception either.

This is true that it is normal, but he could have some more compassion for her situation.

This is something that he needs to consider too because he should talk to her about their situation, boundaries, and just what their future holds.

This could be a vote that makes sense because it seems that they're both kind of thinking about themselves in this situation.

This isn't his girlfriend or anything but he does have to consider the fact that they are having a child together which makes them at least co-parents.

This is a comment that a lot of people may not agree with but it's something that needs to be said. Essentially what they should say is that whoever you're going to sleep with, you should be okay to have a child with them as well.

This situation is absolutely wild and OP gives a lot more information in the comments where people began asking him questions about what is going on.

This is really great advice because it's clear that they should have a conversation about this.

This situation is very hard to navigate because it's just difficult to find your footing with different feelings and just being overall in a weird place. We hope that OP establishes some boundaries with her and explains to her more that they are not in a relationship, at least at the moment.

Daphnie