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"I can't go back now, all the preparation of my marriage is made"
With the availability of texting and video conferencing, it seems that maintaining a long-distance relationship is simpler than ever. The time when long-distance calls had to be restricted is long over; they are no longer considered a luxury.
We are no longer even in the era of waiting for our family members to check their email after work. Even while we are out shopping, working, playing, watching a movie, and doing much more, instant messaging keeps us connected to one another.
However, as anyone in a long-distance relationship will tell you, technology cannot make up for everything in a long-distance relationship. Despite the lack of constant physical presence, many long-distance relationships nonetheless appear emotionally challenging.
The OP of today's story is in a dilemma as she ends her long-distance relationship of ten whole years. It started with the fights, and the OP slowly started to withdraw emotionally before she finally broke things up over some ego issue.
Someone proposed marriage to the OP through her mom, and she accepted. Months have gone by and all the marriage preparations have been made, but the OP is now feeling confused.
Apparently, the OP is no longer angry with her ex, and after talking to him, she realized that she lost a person who loved her more than anything.
There's a summary at the end just in case you couldn't read the whole story.
No one can guarantee that a long distance relationship will be simple; the additional distance prevents many things from being doable. You might experience moments of loneliness and sadness as well as a confusing situation.
The OP has found herself in a really messed up situation and we hope she makes the right decision for herself in the end.