Lady Tells Brother That He Deserves Better Than His Girlfriend Who Is An Impolite Gold Digger, Gets Termed The AH

"I said to Jack he deserved a better girlfriend, not a gold digger"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• December 26, 2023

Everyone has seen people act rudely toward strangers for no apparent reason. Examples include talking over a customer service agent on the phone, behaving so irritated toward a waiter at a restaurant, or disregarding a bystander on the street.

Even if the rudeness isn't aimed at you, you've probably noticed it and noted how the offending individual so blatantly mistreats other people. It turns out that it's extremely important to notice impolite behavior from your partner when you're in a romantic relationship.

This is because, even though it wasn't meant for you at the time, it could be a serious red flag for how you might be treated in the future. OP's older brother, Jack, has been in a relationship with Anna for 2 years now.

Jack doesn't tell the family much about his love life, so they've only known about her for a few months. The OP says that Anna is weird.

She doesn't know how to write or read and doesn't speak a lot. Even when she does, she speaks like a child, and Jack says she has a mental illness.

She doesn't have a lot of friends; other people ignore her or don't like her, and she doesn't seem to care that much. One thing the OP noted about Anna was that she was so impolite.

A scene of her impoliteness took place one day, and the OP had to spell things out for her brother. Read the full story as you scroll down below.

The OP writes

She doesn't know how to write or read and doesn't speak a lot

They all started to argue, then OP's mom asked them to leave

OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the a-hole:

1: I said to my brother he deserved a better girlfriend in front of her 2: Some family members thinks i am the asshole, because i shouldn't care about my brother's private life and they think i was mean to his girlfriend.

Let's head into the comments section and find out what other Redditors have to say regarding the story

She feels safe with Jack but not with the OP

This Redditor believes the OP's brother might be taking advantage of the girlfriend

The OP seems to lack any real understanding of their relationship

The OP added this edit to the post for further clarification

I never said Anna doesn't have mental issues, she definitely has, I just thinks how she behave toward us is not because of her mental issues but because she is rude. That's it. I've already seen her talking to Jack alone and she is kinda normal with him.

She doesn't answer questions about her life

The brother's girlfriend sounds mentally challenged

The OP's there messing up someone with a disability

How is she a gold digger?

Some Redditors said that the fact that the brother's girlfriend doesn't answer questions about her life could be a sign of a bad childhood. However, OP's brother said it's a mental thing, but she may have development issues, yet the OP believes she knows her better than everyone else and thinks it's not true.

The OP was declared the AH, and you can leave your own verdict below.

Maryjane