Netizens React As Man Criticizes Indian Girlfriend's Traditional Attire As “Out Of Place” In The American Work Environment

“Sure, it could fly during a festival or something, but definitely not for work.”

Jesse

• Published in Interesting
• December 3, 2023

The world is an exciting mix of cultures, languages, and traditions, each adding its own unique brilliance to humanity. It’s not unusual for modern relationships to be a vibrant blend of diverse cultural backgrounds, but what if the one thing that makes us unique sparks conflict in our love life?

Our narrator (Original Poster) was an all-American guy. His girlfriend, on the other hand, was the perfect blend of British and Indian allure.

She identified more with her British side, which was evident from her accent, political views, and religion. There was, however, one thing she was utterly obsessed with about Indian culture—their outfits.

This duo had recently started living together, and OP couldn’t help but notice her work fits. A couple of days a week, this British belle of Indian descent strutted off to her tech job in dazzling Indian attire—complete with sparkly gold or silver heels.

Now, OP thought she looked dashing, but he felt this flamboyant style wasn’t appropriate for the sleek corridors of the American workplace.

He had a couple of Indian friends himself, and they kept the traditional attire strictly for festive purposes. 

OP urged her to tone down the cultural vibrancy in the workplace. He didn’t want her to be deemed unprofessional at work or, worse—attract unnecessary attention.

She didn’t take this “well-intentioned” suggestion very well, though. She furiously asserted her right to wear whatever she deemed fit and proceeded to put on an icy demeanor.

OP was only trying to look out for her. Was he in the wrong for voicing his concerns?

The title:

The story in detail

OP told his girlfriend to tone down on her Indian attire, as she looks out of place in America

She got upset and has been acting cold towards OP ever since

Here’s how the Reddit community reacted to the story:

“YTA very much. You’re worried about discrimination, but it sounds like you’re the only one with a problem with it.”

“If no one has complained at work about what she wears, then you’re creating discord where there isn’t any.”

“If she hasn’t gotten any complaints from her work, it’s totally fine and not your place to butt in.“

“Dude…you are totally being prejudice towards your own wife!“

“YTA…Her traditional clothing isn’t a costume to wear only at festivals.”

“If they had an issue with her dressing they can talk to her. Doesn’t seem to be an issue with anyone except you.“

“YTA - by trying to prevent discrimination, you became discriminatory.“

“YTA…The only consequences she appears to be facing are coming from you.”

Important edit

In a Reddit uproar, OP faced backlash for criticizing his own girlfriend for her cultural expression. Her work hadn’t even complained, so why was he? 

The stern talking-to jolted OP into self-awareness, and he acknowledged he indeed owed her an apology.

Even in American workplaces, there's no room for cultural judgment. Differences should be celebrated, and OP shouldn’t forget that. 

What do you think about this story? Let us know in the comments. 

Jesse