Lady Borrows One Of Her Favourite Dress To Friend But She Refuses To Return It, Shames Her Badly By Updating All Her Friends

"She'll always walk in shame because most of them are her classmates"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• December 26, 2023

Many of us have favorite items—books, clothes, toys, or collections—that we have hunted down, hoarded, or reserved for exceptional occasions. Sometimes it's a gift from a really special person in our lives, and other times it's something our favorite relative brought back from a trip they took.

It implies that they care about you but you tend to become agitated when you borrow someone your favourite item and they refuse to return it. In a similar vein, your friend can become angry if you don't give their belongings back.

You tend to forget that if your friend has shared something with you, they must think highly of you. So you must always remember to give it back because it shows how much we appreciate and like that friend or family member.

The narrator of today's story borrowed a sexy blue floral dress that she had only worn once to a friend called Rita. She wanted to impress some specific people so they could pay her bills.

Later on, the OP asked Rita to give her back her dress because she's known for her carelessness. Also, the OP did not want her to ruin the drawings because they were new and one of her favorites.

Rita kept postponing the date she was supposed to bring it. The OP would text her to remind her, but she'd always find an excuse.

It got to the point where Rita started being rude to the OP, so she decided to go the extra mile to get her dress back.

OP kicks off her story

OP heard her lie to them about where she got the dress and the price of the dress

She's blaming the OP for reminding others about their debts but she doesn't care

OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

1. I texted all her close friends and it was kind of embarrassing for her. 2. Most of my friends think am an AH for embarrassing her.

We've gathered some of the most upvoted comments from other Redditors for you to read through below

It's time everyone realised she is a mean person

OP did ask her nicely to return her dress, but she was mean

OP says she brought the dress and left it on her doorsteps

This is the kind of approach some credit stores take in this Redditor's country

Throwing a brick through their window gets the message across

Do not mess with an independent Kenyan woman

She is the kind of person that replaces her boyfriend

Sometimes, you never get something back when you lend it to a friend; it's either the gift is retained, or the thing is forgotten. Asking a friend to return something they borrowed might make many people feel uncomfortable because it can be confrontational and sour the friendship.

The OP didn't mind, as she could go to any length to get her dress back. Redditors made their verdict, and the OP was declared not the AH.

Maryjane