Redditor Refuses To Remove His GF From The Lease So She Could Take Care Of Her Sick Grandma Because He Hates Roommates

"But how is it fair she goes to live with her grandma rent free while I’m stuck with a stranger I don’t know..."

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Redditor Refuses To Remove His GF From The Lease So She Could Take Care Of Her Sick Grandma Because He Hates Roommates

People are allowed to be selfish to a certain degree. Even in times of hardship, selfishness helps people thrive and survive in this world. 

Most of us were taught not to be selfish and to always be aware of how much we're taking and giving back. However, people are not raised the same way and have different upbringings.

When someone fails to maintain the balance between selfishness and selflessness, especially when tilted significantly towards selfishness, it can become harmful for everyone involved. No one likes selfish people, and if the behavior persists, it can lead to social rejection.

A Redditor who later deleted his account made a post on the r/AmItheA**hole subReddit where he explained how he refused to remove his girlfriend from the lease after she could no longer live with him. The girlfriend is supposed to move in with her grandma to provide care and look after her, but the Op thinks it's unfair because he doesn't want to live with a roommate. 

The user got a lot of interesting reactions to her post. Scroll down to check out the full Reddit post, and scroll a little further to read the comments from the original post. 

Here's the original post by a Reddit user who later deleted his account:

Here's the original post by a Reddit user who later deleted his account:Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op thinks it's unfair that his GF gets to live rent free while he's stuck with a roommate.

Op thinks it's unfair that his GF gets to live rent free while he's stuck with a roommate.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Here's how the Reddit community reacted to the user's post:

Here's how the Reddit community reacted to the user's post:Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op wants her to keep paying all that money just because he hates roommates.

Op wants her to keep paying all that money just because he hates roommates.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op's GF isn't going to live "rent free;" she will need to take care of her grandma.

Op's GF isn't going to live Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op's relationship is not going to last a lot.

Op's relationship is not going to last a lot.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op's GF has every right to break up with him.

Op's GF has every right to break up with him.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op's GF should remove herself from the lease and his life.

Op's GF should remove herself from the lease and his life.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

A lease is a binding agreement.

A lease is a binding agreement.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op is being childish by expecting that from his GF.

Op is being childish by expecting that from his GF.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

That is not the reaction you are supposed to have.

That is not the reaction you are supposed to have.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op's GF should help him find a new roommate.

Op's GF should help him find a new roommate.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op is losing a lot of things by behaving this way.

Op is losing a lot of things by behaving this way.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op and his GF are both equally liable.

Op and his GF are both equally liable.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Having a roommate is not as bad as what Op wants to force his GF into.

Having a roommate is not as bad as what Op wants to force his GF into.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op's relationship is pretty much over.

Op's relationship is pretty much over.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

"Signing a lease generally means you’re legally agreeing to be on the hook to pay rent until the lease is up and that’s a commitment she made."

Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op should stop being selfish and get a roommate.

Op should stop being selfish and get a roommate.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op is not helping his girlfriend through the difficult period she's going through.

Op is not helping his girlfriend through the difficult period she's going through.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op's girlfriend is going to be working hard regardless.

Op's girlfriend is going to be working hard regardless.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Op will eventually have to get a roommate.

Op will eventually have to get a roommate.Reddit: r/AmItheA**hole

Well, this is a difficult situation. Op is definitely the a-hole in this situation.

He is not helping his girlfriend's situation at all and is only making things more complicated for her. If you enjoyed reading this, make sure to check out similar content on our platform.

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