Man Gets Called Out For Choosing To Go To His Best Friend's Wedding Instead Of His Wife's Birthday Party

Man, the wife was furious.

Sophia

• Published in Interesting
• November 18, 2022

When you say “priorities,” what comes to mind? Probably the terms “important”, and “valuable”, and it is probably right up to your top ten of everything, right?

It is easy to rank these things onto objects that you frequently or mostly use every day. But here is the trickier question: how about in events?

True, events will always take you to plan ahead for things not to overlap in your schedule. But what if it’s on the same day, more, what if it’s an event between your family and friend?

You might want to take some time to think about it. It’s a true war between the question of who and which is more important. 

Surely you cannot divide your body into two. But if you do know, kindly share how (because we all want some answers to this very difficult!!).

Kidding aside, it really is hard to weigh between events especially when they are really of importance. Say, between your wife’s months-prepared 30th birthday party or your best friend’s wedding ceremony, which is which?

But first, have you ever heard of the saying, “Happy wife, happy life”? You don’t need to be an academic scholar or be the smartest person in the room to get that, but surely husbands understand this the most (don’t you husbands???).

Going back, this is the dilemma of our AITA episode for today. We cannot imagine what the next steps could be for the OP.

It’s the wife versus the best friend.

Now, let’s do a background check.

Of course, it might be even scarier if she’s not mad!

Weird that you even asked, but ask anyway…

Now this explains the wife’s furiosity.

What’s the world’s say about this? Is OP the AH?

If this ain’t the most straightforward answer to this situation…but there’s a point!

Oops! It is a matter of choices indeed.

But here was the thing! Say, even if it’s late planned… who’s more important?

OF COURSE!

Or the wife married the wrong man? Just saying…

But still, we’re talking about which is more important for the OP to attend to.

You call him your best friend yet you were informed in just a week? Most would think twice by now…

Again, happy wife? Happy life!

Is that a “best friend” thing to do?

Poor wife…

The wife is waving!

Decisions, decisions…

Which is which, OP?

Yeah, why wasn't he involved with the plans in the first place? This is why the wife is so furious!

OP needs a couples seminar, maybe?

Still not over the fact that this invitation was sent a week before the wedding.

Sorry not sorry.

Maybe it’s the other way around now? “Happy life, no wife”?

Seeing the circumstances... well, yeah, good luck trying to make amends with your wife, OP!

It’s a matter of choice whether to choose a friend’s or a family member’s (especially your spouse’s) event. Both might be important for you, but you can only go once at a time.

It’s important to weigh the pros and cons if you go to your friend’s wedding or your wife’s birthday party. Choose what’s more wise and beneficial for you in the end (the wife, of course? Just saying!)

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Sophia