Woman Says No To Being A Bridesmaid For Her Best Friend And Ex's Wedding

I think many of us might not even know what to do in this situation, but we don't blame her for her choice.

Daphnie

• Published in Interesting
• November 3, 2022

Drama like this is usually only seen in the movies, but hearing that someone in real life had this experience honestly makes it sad. If you don't know, we love to dive deep into Reddit conversations that are on the AITA page.

The AITA page is specifically for those who are looking for advice on specific scenarios and situations. Usually, they are asking if they are in the wrong for their response to certain situations and we love these posts because usually Reddit commenters have quite a lot to say about the post.

Reddit users can typically "vote" on whether or not they are in the wrong for their situation or not, plus it's always really fun to see everyone's comments and their perspective on the posts. Today we'll be looking at another infamous Reddit post where someone comes in asking for advice on their situation.

This woman said no to being a bridesmaid for a wedding, but you might be surprised to hear why she said no. We want to dive in and take a look into the story itself, what people said, and whether or not they said that she's wrong for saying no.

If you love stuff like this then stay tuned as we get into this rather long story.

Here's where she begins the story in talking about the history between the three of them.

She goes on to explain why they sort of seperated locations.

Eventually they broke up.

This is when things went down and she realizes her friend might be with her ex.

Here's the ending of when she was asked to be a bridesmaid and her response to that.

The first comment basically already says it all and explains the possible scenario.

These would be terrible circumstances to be a bridesmaid.

It's definitely a little weird that they got together so soon and it definitely could have been infidelity.

I feel like it's weird too especially if her friend ghosted after the whole thing went down.

Again, it's weird she wants her to be a bridesmaid either way, but the whole situation is odd.

Things happen, but they could have at least been honest with her from the start.

They have to anticipate that there will be drama if she attends the wedding, so it's best to just not.

It really just seems like she's being quite selfish.

Exactly, it's not worth it all. Just protect your peace.

Basically exactly what this person said. We all agree she shouldn't go.

Things may have been better if they'd never lied to OP about anything.

Agreed. I think a lot of us would have done much worse than just declined the invite.

Jane was probably trying to mend things by inviting her, but honestly it's too late at this point.

The most simple comment that says so much.

This scenario really sucks for OP and we can't imagine what they are going through and feeling. It seems that we and everyone else that commented agree that she's indeed NTA and she made a very smart call by actually not attending the wedding.

What would you have done?

Daphnie