Couple Exit Comedy Show Abruptly To Avoid Triggering A Former Alcohol Addict Who Is In Recovery

Navigating the social scene for the benefit of others.

Jesse

• Published in Interesting
• January 3, 2023

If you've ever had issues with alcohol, then you know how difficult it can be to overcome this challenge. Alcohol addiction is a serious problem affecting millions of people in the US, and it can have many negative consequences.

One of the most obvious negative effects of alcohol addiction is the physical health problems associated with it. Long-term heavy drinking can lead to liver damage, cirrhosis, and diseases like cancer.

It can also lead to heart problems and an increased risk of stroke. Additionally, alcohol addiction can increase your risk of developing a wide range of mental health issues, such as depression and anxiety.

When people decide to get help and make changes in their lives, they will likely face temptations. This is especially true when it comes to social situations where others are drinking alcohol.

One Redditor's story serves as a reminder of how difficult it can be to remain sober in these situations. The Redditor and her boyfriend decided to attend a comedy show and didn't pass up on the opportunity to enjoy some alcohol while watching the performances.

It wasn't long before they realized that they were making the couple close by uncomfortable. Apparently, her boyfriend found out that the guy was in recovery and was struggling to stay calm with their cans of alcohol in close proximity.

To avoid making life difficult for the poor guy, OP's boyfriend insisted that they leave. But she wasn't going to roll over, as she felt that someone in recovery shouldn't be in a social gathering where they know that people will be drinking alcohol.

Check out the full story below.

Let's dig into the details of the story

OP and her boyfriend attended a comedy show just after attending the pre party where alcohol was served

They grabbed their seats to enjoy the show with a few cans of alcohol. But it didn't take long for them to notice that the couple beside was uncomfortable with their presence because the guy was in recovery.

OP's boyfriend advised that they leave, but she was adamant that the guy should be the one to leave if he can't handle the sight of alcohol

OP and her boyfriend ended up leaving, but they had a big argument in the car

Just so you know...

We gathered some reactions from the Reddit community:

"HE needs to figure out a solution. His problem is not yours to solve."

"It seems like he and his partner should have left early if he had problems coping."

"I sympathize with alcoholics, but he came to a place that served alcohol. That is on him, NOT you."

"Even if he was in recovery that’s for him to manage."

"NTA His recovery, his problem."

"The woman glaring at you is an a**hole, and so is your boyfriend for caving in."

"NTA being in recovery is serious but people shouldn't go to events that they aren't prepared for."

"If they couldn't handle being around alcohol, then why going there?"

"So if he is unable to be in that environment onus is on him to leave."

"He's the one with the problem, and he needs to make the lifestyle changes, not you."

"No you are NTA and I can't believe you guys were pressured to leave! That is fucking bullshit!"

It can be difficult to know how to react when you realize you are triggering someone who is trying to stay sober. On the one hand, you want to be respectful of their sobriety, and on the other hand, you also paid for your tickets and shouldn't have to leave just because they can't handle being around alcohol.

In the end, OP decided to give in to her boyfriend's persuasion, but not without giving him a piece of her mind.

What would you have done in a similar situation? Share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Jesse