The OP asks:
The OP explained she learned that her aunt tends to lie about her allergies:
The OP's mom is severely gluten intolerant, but it seems that no one cares:
The OP made her favorite dish, which provoked an argument between her and her uncle due to the auntie's allergies:
Later, another incident happened that caused them to argue again:
That upset her aunt, and a lot of family members blamed the OP:
So, the OP asks for unbiased opinions on the matter:
The OP was not in the wrong, her aunt should know about her own allergies
Either she is irresponsible, or she is lying
If the aunt fakes her allergies, it says a lot about her character
The OP is more reasonable than her uncle and aunt
The aunt is selfish, and the OP is NTA
Adults should know what food they are allergic to
Redditors unanimously agreed that the OP was not in the wrong for defending her mother. Also, she had shown more responsibility than her uncle and his wife.
A grown-up should know what food they are allergic to. Furthermore, the aunt's tendency to lie about being allergic to certain foods makes people wonder if she's really allergic.