Girl Wants To Know If She's Wrong For Not Wanting To Be Present For Her Sister's Birth
It's no secret that childbirth is a very special thing in someone's life, but sometimes someone's birth plan or labor plan isn't exactly how it ends up being. A lot of women go into labor with a full plan of who will be there, what music will be playing, what they'll be wearing, and more.
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That's why we can't blame this girl's sister for having everything planned out, but with that being said some people just don't see birth as beautiful as it is and instead they view it as traumatic, painful, and just not very glorious. We wanted to bring this story to light today from the AITA post because this girl is asking for advice on this situation.
We love these types of posts because it helps us view things from different perspectives and overall just look into a situation with multiple views. If you're into this kind of thing then keep on reading because this scenario is about to blow your mind.
We're going to touch base on this situation about her sister's birth, but we want you to think about the responses and what you'd do in this situation if it was you. Let's dive in and take a look at this story and these responses.
Here's the story and a little about her family.
Here is how her sister reacted to her.
The first comment tells her that she's NTA and we agree.
It's very true that guests are to be invited, not required.
Not everyone wants to be present for birth and that's okay.
You cannot summon people to attend.
It's actually quite odd to want that many people to accompany you during your labor.
This is perfectly said. She can't force people to participate in her labor.
She definitely should stand her ground.
I mean people want their birth how they want their birth.
Yep, I got this same vibe.
I was thinking the same thing. I wonder why she thought that her sister would want to be there.
There is literally no such thing as a perfect birth plan or a perfect birth, but let the lady dream.
It is true that usually you see posts like these excluding people.
If I were her I wouldn't go if I didn't want to. Simple as that.
It's definitely more of a thing that you should ask, not assume.
Well this is a really funny way to put it, but quite accurate.
As we said before, if she doesn't want to be there then okay.
I wouldn't want so many people in the room with me while i deliver a baby.
Simply put but it makes a lot of sense in this situation.
This situation is something that many of us wouldn't have expected because usually, stories that start off this way are about people being excluded from being present during someone else's birth experience, not forced to be there. Overall though it's a story that I hope turns out positive, but it's pretty cool to see how many people agreed that she's NTA.
What do you think about this story?